How would you FEEL…

If

…your image is publicly tarnished for a crime you never committed?

You woke up one day

And switched on Twitter (that devilish SM).

You saw a picture of yourself.

It was trending for the wrong reason.

The tweet said…

“This is the picture of the sick demon that raped my 8yrs old child, both in her anus and vagina”

“He is on the run, retweet until he is brought to justice”.

What would you do?

Now the whole world is looking for you.

At first sight, you might be burnt to ashes, alive, by a mob.

What would you do?

A wise man once told me…

“Son”

“Satan has many weapons, but the cruelest of them all is… false accusation.”

If you are going out and you see a beggar praying…

You won’t ever be accused falsely… just say Amen and put money in her basket..

There are some people today who don’t take Bishop Biodun Fatoyinbo seriously anymore.

Do you know why?

It’s because…

They just couldn’t get past the Busola Dakolo’s accusation saga.

Even though the case isn’t concluded till today..

Still…

As far as some persons are concerned, the MOG was elfing that girl.

Period.

Nobody can convince them otherwise.

Nobody!!!

When I was still a dedicated Christian (Pastor), I was accused of something I didn’t do.

A girl.

Pretty as hell.

A close family friend.

Tolani.

She said something about me that everybody still believes to this day.

It was at a get-together.

A public gathering.

Her words were…

“See this one, forming pastor”

All eyes fell on me.

“This one wey almost shift my womb with prick that day”.

The whole place erupted with laughter.

She continued.

“The fucker”.

And the laughter gained momentum..

I tried to set the record straight but my voice was drowned by their mockery.

One guy jumped up and said, angrily…

“If you deny this tin again, I go wooz you”.

I tried to speak up again, but my friend held my mouth and pulled me back to my seat.

Then whispered…

“Guy, why you dey fool yourself? Babe say you lash her and you still dey deny?”

I looked into his eyes, I saw that he was dead serious.

I saw that he too has believed the lie.

Not even my friend could defend me.

So, to let peace reign, I kept quiet in my pain.

And that is how “The fucker” became my nickname.

I was labeled and stamped with a name that wasn’t mine.

This incident happened at a spot along Iwo road in Ibadan city.

It was done publicly.

But the truth was, I never fckd that girl.

Scammer.

Fake.

Criminal.

All these are some of the titles we love to label our fellow marketers with …anytime we disagree with them.

It is becoming too common.

This is why the Anti-Social Media bill is being considered in the national assembly.

So you bought a course and you didn’t like it?

Does that make the seller a scammer?

I have bought a brand new ELEPAC generator before and it turned out that it came with a fault from the factory.

But that doesn’t make ELEPAC a scam company.

We all must have bought a product, a gadget or even a car that we turned out not to like very much after we bought it.

But does that mean that the seller or manufacturer were scammers?

Please.

It is very bad to be quick to label your fellow marketers as a criminal.

It is now becoming too much.

Just because you don’t like my guts doesn’t automatically make me a criminal.

Just because you are suspicious of me doesn’t make me guilty.

Just because my results are wayyyyyy better than yours doesn’t mean I am doing anything shady.

If you feel I am doing something wrong and God has anointed you to correct me, no problem.

But

Please…

Before you call me out publicly…. if it is the truth that you truly seek…. why not chat me up privately to clear your doubt?

This is the right way.

If you do it the other way, then it will make you look like a common bitter hater.

I have made 7 figures (Nairas) on WhatsApp (this 2020) selling my knowledge.

When prospects came, they usually asked for Money Back guarantee.

They wanted to be sure so they don’t waste money.

At first, I give unconditional money back guarantee on all my courses.

But I noticed that some cunning human beings will get access to my materials and after copying everything in it…

They wale up one morning and call back for their money (over 4 people did this)..

And i later saw them selling out this same knowledge in their own name…

But here was what changed the game for me.

I tweaked the script.

When prospects come and ask Money back guarantee, I tell them this…

“SHOW ME PROOF THAT YOU IMPLEMENT EVERYTHING I TAUGHT AND YOU DIDN’T MAKE MONEY… YOU WILL GET 100% OF YOUR MONEY”.

I also give them reasons for my change of policy.

But this didn’t go down well with some of them.

Some angry ones went ahead and called me a scammer.

“Just because you didn’t like how I replied to your question do not make me a scammer”.

I was just laughing and didn’t allow it get to me because i sell what works.

That’s the way it ought to be.

You can’t call someone a scammer if they haven’t scammed you.

Or would YOU love to be condemned for a crime you are yet to commit?

No one wants that shit.

It’s pure negative energy.

But guess what?.

When I changed my policy?

Sales went up.

The QUALITY of my students also got better.

Restraint , restraint.

Most times these allegations are born out of “EGO”..pride and arrogance.

Even this sweet email will still get some people angry.

And it’s because…

Some people feel they have the ordained RIGHT to call anyone they don’t agree with a SCAMMER.

It’s just the way they roll.

Similarly…

There are guys who call any chick that is out of their league a runz girl.

They would ask…

“Where she for see money buy Benz , how does she pay for a duplex in Lekki? Abegii, she be ashewo”.

That is just how they roll…

But that’s a very toxic way to think.

Got my drift?

If yes, then my job is done here.

To your success,

Dolapo Hamzat (The Fucker).