She said yes, .
I was so happy when this lady I chased for 5 months said yes.
It was more like a dream come through for me because I so much like the girl or so I thought.
And that was why I kept repeating this same statement to my friends.
She said yes.
She said we can date now.
She said she likes me too but she only wanted to frustrate me a bit so she can see if I am the right one.
And then, my head was seriously not working or what do you expect from someone that finished secondary school in 2015 and gained admission in late 2016.
So I fell totally for the lady in class the first time I saw her.
I liked her.
But me being shy as I was then, I couldn’t approach her until I joined the level WhatsApp group.
I got her number through her DP and I sent her messages.
I never revealed my face but I was professing love over and over again.
And the day she knew it was me?
She was just laughing because when I saw my picture of then self…
I questioned why she said yes.
But along the line, she said yes and I was damn happy not knowing it was a trap.
And in a moment, I will tell you the trap she set for me and how I walked into it without suspecting shit.
But if you have ever fallen into the trap of not being able to ask a lady out.
Well, I need to let you know that all assumptions and flaws are in your head.
Na you dey think am.
The majority of these ladies won’t even see it.
I don’t know if you have heard of this phrase that says…
“Ladies love with their heart and not their eyes or brain”
And without lying, this is plain fact.
Very few ladies care about your looks, so get that ugly scene outta your head.
Many ladies don’t care about your money, they are independent… so take out that your “I am broke” mentality.
And please, I am not saying money is not important in a relationship, I am just saying it’s not an excuse.
I hope you get it?
And like I said earlier, all these excuses are in your head.
Stop thinking about it and get something going.
Approach that lady.
Ask that lady out.
Shoot your shot.
And without me telling you, you should know this is the same process when starting anything online.
Just yesterday while scrolling through social media.
I saw something that brought me one badass idea.
And without wasting any more time on the idea… I rolled it into action.
I surveyed like 5 people about the idea and they said they will gladly pay for it.
And the funniest thing is that…
I haven’t figured out a lot of things.
Like a whole lot of things haven’t been figured out.
But I am giving myself one week to map out and launch.
Which I will do.
What does that tell you?
Just get going with anything you have.
And there’s one very important you should take note of.
This is your mindset.
It can make or break you.
If you believe you can, then you can definitely can (I know it’s incorrect)
If you believe you can’t, then you can’t can
Simple as ABC.
And I have two books that really helped me with my mindset.
The first one is THE ALCHEMIST BY PAULO COELHO
The second one is THE SECRET BY RHONDA BYRNE