She accused me of wasting money

Dolapo

Dolapo

Some people are just alive to make you feel bad for yourself. 
 
Like they will just sit down and start counting what you have said in the past…
 
And then use it against you.
 
Meanwhile, one thing they always forget is…
 
  • Life happens.
  • People changes.
  • We grow every day.
  • We learn every day.
And in fact, we shouldn’t feel bad for being ignorant yesterday in as much as we are developing ourselves daily.
 
But they don’t look at that side, all they know is that they want to commit you to what you said in the past. 
 
And you see…
 
As an Internet marketer (business owner or freelancer)
 
You will find yourself in this position often.
 
Yes.
 
You might have taught people something and at a point…
 
You realize you were wrong.
 
And what you should do is to go back and tell them you are wrong and this is correct. 
 
Fine, it makes you feel like someone that only bluffs.
 
And some people might not believe you again.
 
But it gives you peace of mind.
 
And if you don’t forfeit your peace of mind in this online game…
 
You are better than others.
 
And this brings us to two things…
 
Firstly, always be ready to admit your wrongs.
 
The Internet is really wide and big.
 
And the Internet doesn’t forget.
 
If you say something and you later realize you are wrong.
 
Come out and tell people you are wrong.
 
Let them know this was what you thought initially and now…
 
This is what you know now.
 
To me, this portrays you as being very original and real.
 
While to others, you might look like someone that doesn’t know what he’s doing.
 
Which is fine both ways.
 
That’s their problem and not yours.
 
Secondly, never stop developing yourself. 
 
I have over 20 hard copy of books I love on marketing, persuasion, sales, and life in general.
 
But one day I will never forget was the day someone accused me of wasting money buying books.
 
She accused me of wasting money.
 
Because each book cost nothing less than 3500, some are higher.
 
And because she asked me for money and I told her I don’t have.
 
She said why am I wasting money on books when I will be broke?
 
And by then, I knew that this person needs to be knocked.
 
But instead, I just told her something simple.
 
Fuck you!!!
 
So what I am bringing out here is simple.
 
You can only improve yourself by reading and studying more.
 
Do not stay in one position. 
 
Learn something relating to your field daily.
 
Or why do you think I am still relevant?
 
Exactly. 
 
The bottom line is:
 
Always admit when you are wrong so you don’t mislead people that are learning from you.
 
And never stop developing yourself. 
 
Have a nice week,
 
Dolapo Hamzat. 
 

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