Ending a relationship can be really tiring and tasking. 

It comes with a lot of uncertainties. 

And I know all these because the number of relationships I have ended is countless.

But I am not trying to be one bad guy here.

I just like working based on agreement and I always walk away from shit. 

And when I say relationship, I don’t necessarily mean boyfriend and girlfriend thing.

I rarely do that.

I mean friendships. 

And with my experience so far, I see why a lot of people end their relationship and still go back to it.

You see, it’s easy to say Hakeem is a mumu because he went back to his girlfriend. 

And it’s also easy to say Flora is a fool because she left everybody and went back to her ex-boyfriend. 

It’s really not easy.

Because come to think of it, you know how hard it is for you to let go of your favourite phone?

Or can you remember how crazily you cried when your favourite toy got spoilt when you were small?

Exactly the way they feel too.

This is her favourite person, letting him go can be the hardest thing for her.

And yeah, today is Friday and I know I shouldn’t be here telling you about heartbreaks and all.

But I feel it’s the right time simply because I am also heartbroken. 

I ended a long-term friendship yesterday and mehnnnnn

I went back running to her.

You can’t blame me especially when you know how close I am with this lady.

Funny enough, we haven’t seen each other before.

But the relationship between us is more like siblings that are best friends.

But along the line, we fell off because of various reasons.

I gave her space because I thought that was what she needed.

Not knowing she’s crazily going through things.

And when we tried talking yesterday, I ended everything even without listening to her side of the story.

But when she explained to me what happened…

I ran back to her like a kid will run to his mama.

And honestly, I have no reason for telling you this.

Neither do I have a marketing lesson to point out even though they are deeply embedded there.

Just felt like ranting to you.

And I am glad you listened.

But one more thing before I go…

Always strive to be there for anybody you call a friend.

Fine, I know you might have been crazily hurt by friends and all.

But don’t forget you have also eaten food that turned your stomach in the past…

Did that stop you from eating again?

Exactly. 

You have been hurt in the past doesn’t mean this other person will also hurt you.

So please, if you call someone your friend.

Strive very hard to be there for that person.

That’s all for today,

Have a nice weekend ahead,

Dolapo Hamzat. 

P.S:

The offer for the business owner copywriting class is concluded.

I only need to put it on a page for you to see.

Which I should finish before Sunday and you can commence payment. 

Till then, keep your fingers crossed.