Why would somebody be this stupid for crying out loud?

You met me just yesterday in front and you are loving me to the moon and back..

Isn’t that stupidity?

Those were the words of my friend to me yesterday…

Apparently, a guy has been disturbing her for days now..

The guy came to visit a friend in her hostel..

And by sheer coincidence, the guy saw her fetching water..

And he couldn’t stop himself..

He begged for her number..

In fact, he even brought his friend to help beg her to give her number when she refused to drop her number..

And the funniest part is..

This girl is already used to this rubbish.. 

She’s used to people staring at her because damn..

She has a big and phat ass..

And she’s also used to guys groveling and begging for her number just get into that ass..

But this one pissed her off..

After giving the guy number..

Immediately, the guy sent a message to her..

I enjoyed your company today, I love you to the moon and back..

And my friend was like..

Is love that easy? Isn’t that stupidity?

Someone I didn’t even give audience to at all.. he’s enjoying my company..

I was just laughing when she was telling me..

And the funniest thing is..

This guy is a fine man..

Tall, dark, beards, fine scatter..

And this is exactly what my friend wants in a guy..

But she didn’t give this particular guy audience.. In fact, she hate this one instead..

Because he’s a simp that only wants to get into her pants obviously. 

And seriously..

This is how a lot of customers and buyers feel when they meet you for the first time and you are being desperate to close the sale..

Let me explain…

What you sell might be what you buyer want and need so much..

In fact she has been praying for it..

But unfortunately, she got to your DM to buy and you are already begging her to buy..

She will silently and peacefully leave just like the way my friend rejected her spec.

And I do say this every time, selling is really like seduction..

Yes.

Seduction..

Nothing different except the parties involved..

If you wanna seduce someone, you take it nice and slow..

You start from eye contact slowly..

And you move to body gestures..

Yada yada..

Exactly..

Start from asking the problem your prospect has..

Then be prepared to provide value for free..

And also get to know her well enough..

Ask her what she want to use it for.. get related and familiar..

Get her relaxed..

It’s not compulsory you close the sale that particular day..

Wait for the time to strike and boom..

She will beg you to collect her money because she knows you can get the job done…

And that’s why anytime you are writing a sales letter..

You move from catching attention into creating and arousing their interests by talking about what exactly you will do for them and what they want..

You get to make sure they so much desire whatever you are selling by building anticipation around it..

Before you get to action.. 

Can you see we didn’t move from catching attention to taking action?

Exactly. 

Because it’s a slow and gentle process like I told you.

It’s seduction . 

And my friend was telling me that assuming the guy approached her in a normal way without joining the pack..

She would gladly jump on him because he’s totally her spec.

I think you understand that?

I know you do.

Anyways,

We had the first session of the free class yesterday and damn..

It was mind-blowing even though we haven’t started anything yet.

But I am glad I am providing value all for FREE. 

To your success,

Dolapo Hamzat.